A Mother's Mirror
From the Archconfraternity of Christian Mothers - A Catholic Organization
Let's face it! When I glance in my spiritual morror, am I all that I should be in life? Is Mary, the ideal wife and mother, pleased with the person reflected in my looking glass?
- Have I taught my children their morning and night prayers by praying with them and not just listening to their prayers?
- Have I taken my children to Church, sent them to religion classes and shown an interest in their school tasks and teachers?
- Are my children interested in reading because I provide good books for our home?
- Have I corrected the faults of the children especially stubbornness, selfishness, disobedience, and untruthfulness.
- Have I been supervising the use of the radio, television, and the reading of my children, or are they at times exposed to trashy programs and unwholesome literature?
- Have I been checking the records and tapes of my family and the movies they watch at home or away from home?
- Have I kept watchful eyes on the companions of my children, especially the older children, whether at home or away from home?
- Have I taught my growing girls to be ladylike by insisting that their attire be feminine rather than boyish?
- Have I permitted my sons or daughters to date too young in life? To go "steady" with no prospect of marriage in the near future?
- Have I been teaching my children the value of a dollar and the wisdom of saving for the future in the face of American wastefullness and the lack of economic preparation for marriage?
- Do I try to mention items of a religious nature in my remarks, or is the family conversation limited to the movies, sports, styles, television, and the weather?
- Have I used unbecoming language, cursed or abused the children in anger?
- Would I be willing to have all my stories, jokes, conversations and expressions recorded?
- Is there too much noise and not enough thinking and praying in my life because the radio or television is on most of the day?
- Am I or my daughters a menace to the purity of men and boys because of wearing short shorts, or other clothes that are too tight, too sheer, or too revealing?
- Have I tried to be a source of encouragement and inspiration to my husband?
- Have I tried, as far as possible, to be neat in my appearance when my husband comes home from work? Are the children clean and presentable?
- Have I impaired the authority of my husband with the children regarding obedience?
- Have I belittled him before the children or friends by revealing his faults?
- Have I been adding to divorce and delinquency problems by being unnecessarily employed full-time away from home?
- Have I studied about the misuse of drugs and worried that teenagers say to adults: "You have drinks, we have drugs"?
- Have I forgotten that my first obligation in marriage is to be a good wife and mother? Am I trying to Christianize our community by taking an active interest in parish, civic and political affairs?(Taking too much time and energy away from my family)
- Why do I fear the remarks of other women more than the judgement of God, when, if I have children they criticize me and if I do not have children they criticize me?
- On judgement day, when God opens the book at my account, what will be to my credit: automobiles, appliances, clothes, checking accounts, or my children?
- Am I the type of mother-in-law who is helpful yet stays on the outer edge and does not meddle into family affairs?
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