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As a convert, ignorant of the Stations of the Cross, I found the devotion very difficult to learn. Most Stations of the Cross (also known as the Way of the Cross) books assume that you already know the basic outline of the prayer and only provide another series of meditations. While wonderful and deeply spiritual, these meditations are usually not suitable for a family setting. They are too long or too abstract.
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Basically, the Stations of the Cross can be said anywhere, though in a church or at outside Stations is most customary. It would be an inspiring family devotion to make simple stations and arrange them in the home during Lent, perhaps along a hallway or around the walls of the living room. Consider using the Holy Card Shrine directions in the Crafts section of this book. To pray the Way of the Cross requires only that you meditate at each station.
A family Way of the Cross could be said every Friday afternoon (for home-schooling families), Saturday afternoon (for school-going families), or one station each evening if that suits the children's attention span and family activities better. It can be a simple, quiet, prayerful interlude or an opportunity for conversation, sharing each other's thoughts and meditations about the station.
Before each station you say: "We adore You, O Christ, and we bless You, because by Your holy Cross, You have redeemed the world." After each station, you say an Our Father, Hail Mary, and Glory Be.
Here is a simple series of meditations for a family Stations of the Cross.
LORD JESUS CHRIST take me along that holy way You once took to Your death. Take my mind, my memory, above all my reluctant heart, and let me see what once You did for love of me and all the world.
Jesus is brought to stand in front of Pontius Pilate the judge. He is innocent but Pontius Pilate condemns Him anyway and sentences Him to death.
It is really our bad thoughts, mean words, and angry actions that You are being punished for Jesus. We are praying the Stations of the Cross to tell You that we are sorry for all our sins.
Our Father, Hail Mary, and Glory Be.
Jesus has been beaten by the soldiers. He has been laughed at and spat upon. Now He must pick up the heavy Cross and carry it while the crowd yells. He is so tired and sad but no one seems to care.
We care that You are tired Jesus. We are sorry that You are sad. We would like to help You carry Your Cross with our prayers.
Our Father, Hail Mary, and Glory Be.
The Cross is too heavy. It is so heavy that Jesus falls down under its weight. The blood from the crown of thorns is running into His eyes, and His back aches from the scourging. People are still screaming and throwing things at Him. His heart must be as heavy as the Cross He carries.
It is our sins that make Your Cross so heavy, Jesus. We are sorry. We love You, and we try to be good for You with our prayers and with our lives.
Our Father, Hail Mary, and Glory Be.
Suddenly, Jesus sees His Mother. She is standing at the side of the road surrounded by the crowd. Her eyes fill with tears when she sees Jesus. She wants to help Him, but she cannot. Both their hearts ache at the other's pain.
Jesus You and Your Blessed Mother help us whenever we ask. Our hearts ache, too, with the pain of the Stations of the Cross. We promise to pray to You and to Your Mother often for help in our lives.
Our Father, Hail Mary, and Glory Be.
The soldiers are in a hurry. They grab Simon of Cyrene out of the crowd to car the Cross and make Jesus go faster. Jesus was grateful to Simon for his help.
Simon did not know he was blessed when he was carrying Your Cross-he only felt how heavy it was. Praying the Stations of the Cross will help us to remember that carrying our crosses helps You too.
Our Father, Hail Mary, and Glory Be.
Jesus' face is covered with sweat blood and dust. It is itchy and uncomfortable. In pity, Veronica runs out to the road to wipe the dirt from Jesus' face. This small act of kindness is all she can do to help Him.
Jesus we want to see and touch Your face shining in glory in heaven. We know that our small acts of kindness and our prayers help us grow closer to You and Your Father in heaven.
Our Father, Hail Mary, and Glory Be.
The road is so long, and the Cross is so heavy. Exhausted, Jesus falls down again. The soldiers yell at Him and whip Him to make Him get up. Don't they know that they are hurting Him more? Jesus knows that He is suffering for the sins of the world. He gets up and keeps walking.
Jesus, sometimes we et tired, discouraged, and impatient with the world. When we fail and fall into sin it hurts You more. We are sorry, and we ask You to help us be as patient and brave as You.
Our Father, Hail Mary, and Glory Be.
Next Jesus meets some of the women he taught. They are crying. They are crying for Jesus and for their own loss-what will they do without Jesus? Jesus tells them not to wee for Him but for all the sinners of the world.
Jesus ,You told the women of Jerusalem to weep for us. Even in Your pain, You remembered us. Thank You. We will pray for sinners too.
Our Father, Hail Mary, and Glory Be.
Jesus reaches the last hill before Calvary. He looks up to see how far He has to go. When he sees the hill where He knows He is going to die His strength leaves Him and He falls to the ground. There is still more pain, still more sorrow to endure. But Jesus loves us so He keeps going.
Jesus You kept going even though You were tired, scared, and sad. You loved us then and You love us now. We offer our prayers to tell You that we love You and want to comfort You in Your great sacrifice.
Our Father, Hail Mary, and Glory Be.
The crowd has followed Jesus and the soldiers to the to of Calvary hill. Now they laugh as the guards pull off His clothes-His robe has stuck to the blood on His back. The guards push and shove Jesus. They do not care who He is; they only see that He is an object of scorn.
Jesus, even wounded, bleeding, roughly treated by the guards, and mocked by the crowds You were and are still our King. We ask You to remember us in Your Kingdom.
Our Father, Hail Mary, and Glory Be.
Is this the worst? The feet that carried the message of God's Love and the hands that healed are pierced with nails as Jesus is nailed to the Cross. More wounds more pain, and more humiliation for Jesus.
Jesus they tried to stop Your hands and feet from doing Your Father's work by nailing You to a Cross. You endured the pain of it for us, as You ave Your whole life for us. We thank You and we love You.
Our Father, Hail Mary, and Glory Be.
The sword that Simeon prophesied has pierced Mary's heart. The hopes of the Apostles are crushed. The veil of the Temple, symbol of the Old Covenant of God's Love is torn in two as Jesus' death opens a New Covenant with God.
Jesus You spoke lovingly to everyone gathered at the foot of Your Cross. You knew the new life that Your death made possible. Speak lovingly to us when we come before You and make us worthy of that new life in You.
Our Father, Hail Mary, and Glory Be.
Now, all that is left is to take Jesus' body down from the Cross. All the gentleness, reverence, and love denied through this terrible day are possible now. Mary and the Apostles wonder Is it too late? Is it over?
Jesus with our prayers, we join in taking Your body down from the Cross. We touch You take the nails out wash Your wounds, take off the crown of thorns with love and sorrow. We grieve with Mary and want to comfort her.
Our Father, Hail Mary, and Glory Be.
Even in this time of sorrow, there is help. Joseph of Arimathea arranges for Jesus to be buried in a nearby tomb. His body is wrapped in burial cloths and sealed away. Everyone walks away, weeping. Finally, all is quiet, peaceful even.
Jesus we sometimes think that You are gone . that it is all over, that we will never be happy or good again. Your death and Resurrection show us that You will never leave us. We should always try to follow You with our lives and our prayers.
Our Father, Hail Mary, and Glory Be.